50 Shades of Grey
Has 50 Shades of Grey turned us ladies into a nation of S&M obsessed women searching for our own Christian Grey or is it more a case of we are just caught up in the hype of 50 Shades of Grey?
Recent figures say that worldwide one copy is sold every second, quite amazing really, one theory I do have as to why the fifty shades trilogy is so popular is I honestly believe many of us girls would like our men to be more dominant, when I talk to my girlfriends we are pretty much all in agreement that men in general have lost their way, lost their natural dominance, and instead are one of two things.
- Self- absorbed and in love with themselves
- Scared to say what they want or tell their true feelings.
I think most of us have probably dated or have known both types of men in the past and are left frustrated in men not being men!
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Of course there are the exceptions but they are in the minority, I would actually go as far to suggest that if you have a partner encourage them to read 50 shades of grey, then you can actually take the time to discuss what you both thought of it after, the brilliant part is you will be able to say how refreshing it was to see Christian Grey taking control, describe what you like about his character why it’s a turn on for women… Let’s face it the majority of men don’t understand us and would be grateful for some subtle advice!
Of course we may not all want what Christian Grey offers in the bedroom some of us don’t want to totally submit to a man but what is nice is a man who knows how to treat us, how to both physically and mentally seduce us, make us feel wanted and special, treat us like a lady and take control, testing us rather than acting all needy and clingy like a mummy’s boy who needs us to take control and make all the decisions, again I know some ladies do like that but for a lot of us we would prefer our Christian Grey type man.
With 50 shades of grey about to be made into a movie I think us girls are going to be wanting to explore our sexuality even more, and find our own Christian Grey in some form, I know I am already searching and finding it great fun!!
So come on ladies chase your desires and don’t settle for mundane, join me and let’s explore what we really want, you can sign up for my regular email at the top of the page for all things 50 shades of grey and news on Christian Grey plus I have many more treats lined up to share with you!!!
Love Kitty xx